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1 Samuel 25 — As His Name Is, So Is He

Summary

Samuel dies and all Israel laments him. David goes down to the wilderness of Paran, where a very great man of Maon, Nabal of the house of Caleb, is shearing three thousand sheep in Carmel; his wife Abigail is of good understanding and beautiful, but the man is churlish and evil in his doings. David sends ten young men with a greeting of peace and a request for whatever comes to hand, since his men had been a wall to Nabal's shepherds. Nabal answers, Who is David? Four hundred men gird on their swords. A servant warns Abigail; she loads asses with provisions and meets David in the covert of the hill. She falls at his feet: upon me let this iniquity be; as his name is, so is he; the LORD hath withholden thee from shedding blood; thy soul shall be bound in the bundle of life. David blesses the LORD who sent her, and her advice, and takes her gift. Nabal feasts like a king, very drunken; in the morning his heart dies within him, and ten days later the LORD smites him. David sends for Abigail and she becomes his wife, with Ahinoam of Jezreel; but Saul has given Michal to Phalti.

Key verse

“Yet a man is risen to pursue thee, and to seek thy soul: but the soul of my lord shall be bound in the bundle of life with the LORD thy God; and the souls of thine enemies, them shall he sling out, as out of the middle of a sling.”

— 1 Samuel 25:29

Outline
  1. v.1 Samuel dies; all Israel laments him; David goes down to Paran
  2. v.2-13 Nabal of Carmel; the greeting of peace; Who is David? — gird ye on every man his sword
  3. v.14-22 The servant's warning; Abigail's provisions; David's oath on the road
  4. v.23-35 Abigail at David's feet — the bundle of life; David restrained from blood
  5. v.36-38 Nabal's feast; his heart as a stone; the LORD smote Nabal
  6. v.39-44 Abigail becomes David's wife; Ahinoam; Michal given to Phalti
Verse-by-verse
1 And Samuel died; and all the Israelites were gathered together, and lamented him, and buried him in his house at Ramah. And David arose, and went down to the wilderness of Paran.

Samuel's death is given one verse, and it is enough: all the Israelites were gathered together, and lamented him. The last judge, the prophet who anointed both kings, is buried in his house at Ramah — in his own grounds, as the phrase is usually taken. He had come no more to see Saul (15:35) and had taken David in at Naioth (19:18); now neither king has him. The narrator will repeat the notice in 28:3, just before Saul tries to reach him beyond the grave.

David arose, and went down to the wilderness of Paran. The great southern desert is a long way from Ramah; some ancient Greek copies read Maon here, which fits the next verse, and readers differ. Either way David moves south with his company, further from Saul and nearer the sheep-country of Carmel in Judah (not the northern mountain). The chapter that follows is the only one in these years in which Saul hardly appears — and in it David nearly becomes him.

Cross-references 1 Samuel 28:3 · 1 Samuel 15:35 · 1 Samuel 7:17 · Joshua 15:55
3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.

Two names and two characters, set against each other in one verse. Abigail is of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance; Nabal is churlish and evil in his doings — hard and mean — and of the house of Caleb, a proud lineage of Judah (Joshua 14:13-14) that the text may mention on purpose: great ancestry, small man. Verse 2 has already counted his wealth, three thousand sheep and a thousand goats, before it gives his name. That is the order of his own values.

The narrator does not explain the name Nabal here; Abigail will (v. 25): as his name is, so is he... folly is with him. The study takes the meaning as the text gives it and no further. Sheep-shearing was a festival time (2 Samuel 13:23-24), a season of open hands, which is why David's request (v. 8, we come in a good day) was not impudent in that world. Nabal's refusal breaks the custom of a feast day as much as a debt of gratitude.

Cross-references Joshua 14:13-14 · 2 Samuel 13:23-24 · Proverbs 31:10 · Psalm 14:1
10 And Nabal answered David’s servants, and said, Who is David? and who is the son of Jesse? there be many servants now a days that break away every man from his master.

Who is David? and who is the son of Jesse? Nabal knows exactly who David is — his next words show it: one of the many servants... that break away every man from his master. It is Saul's view of David, spoken by a rich man with a full table. The question is the chapter's hinge: Abigail will answer it (v. 28, my lord fighteth the battles of the LORD), and Nabal's own end will answer it. The reader has known the answer since chapter 16.

Verse 11 adds the possessive refrain — my bread, and my water, and my flesh — and the insult men, whom I know not whence they be. David's messengers had stated the plain fact (v. 7) that his men guarded the shepherds; Nabal's own servant confirms it (vv. 15-16, they were a wall unto us). The man is not ignorant; he is ungrateful, and the rich fool of Luke 12:17-20, with his my fruits... my barns... my soul, has often been read beside him.

Cross-references 1 Samuel 25:28 · Luke 12:19-20 · 1 Samuel 22:7-8 · Proverbs 18:23
25 Let not my lord, I pray thee, regard this man of Belial, even Nabal: for as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him: but I thine handmaid saw not the young men of my lord, whom thou didst send.

Abigail's speech (vv. 24-31) is one of the finest pieces of pleading in the Old Testament. She begins by taking the blame — upon me let this iniquity be — and then separates her husband from herself without excusing him: as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him. This is the text's own gloss on the name, and the study rests on it alone. Man of Belial repeats the servant's verdict (v. 17); the household knows what it lives with.

Note what she does not do: she does not pretend Nabal was right, does not pretend David was unprovoked, and does not plead for Nabal's life as such — she pleads for David's innocence. I thine handmaid saw not the young men explains, truthfully, why the gift was not sent. Wisdom in Scripture is often this practical: a woman of good understanding (v. 3) sees in an hour what four hundred armed men did not see on the road.

Cross-references 1 Samuel 25:17 · Proverbs 15:1 · Proverbs 31:26 · Ecclesiastes 9:17
29 Yet a man is risen to pursue thee, and to seek thy soul: but the soul of my lord shall be bound in the bundle of life with the LORD thy God; and the souls of thine enemies, them shall he sling out, as out of the middle of a sling.

Bound in the bundle of life with the LORD thy God — the image is of valuables tied up and kept safe in a bundle, and Abigail applies it to David's soul, his life, held in God's own keeping. Jewish tradition later took the phrase up for the hope of life beyond death, and Christian readers have heard in it something near your life is hid with Christ in God (Colossians 3:3); in its setting it is first a promise of safe-keeping from Saul, the man... risen to pursue thee.

The second image is a soldier's: the enemies' souls God will sling out, as out of the middle of a sling. She is speaking to the man who felled Goliath with a sling (17:49), and the compliment is also a theology — the sling is in God's hand now. Verse 28 has said why: David fighteth the battles of the LORD, and the LORD will certainly make my lord a sure house — language that 2 Samuel 7:16 will confirm from God's own mouth. Abigail speaks it before the prophet does.

Cross-references Colossians 3:3 · 1 Samuel 17:49 · 2 Samuel 7:16 · Psalm 121:7-8
31 That this shall be no grief unto thee, nor offence of heart unto my lord, either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my lord hath avenged himself: but when the LORD shall have dealt well with my lord, then remember thine handmaid.

Her last argument is the one that lands. When the LORD has made David ruler over Israel (v. 30), let there be no grief... nor offence of heart in the memory that he once shed blood causeless or avenged himself. She asks him to look at the slaughter of Nabal's household from the throne — and to see that a king who climbed over a private vendetta would carry it with him. Offence of heart is a stumbling of conscience; she knows he has one (24:5).

Then remember thine handmaid — a modest close that the chapter will fulfil beyond her meaning (v. 39). The whole plea assumes what Saul confessed in the cave (24:20): that David will be king. In chapter 24 David restrained himself; here he had not, and is restrained by a woman's wisdom. The two chapters stand side by side so the reader can see that the man of 24:6 is not yet safe from himself, and that God's keeping of him sometimes wears an ordinary face.

Cross-references 1 Samuel 24:5 · 1 Samuel 24:20 · Proverbs 20:22 · Romans 12:17-19
33 And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.

David's reply is three blessings: Blessed be the LORD... which sent thee (v. 32), blessed be thy advice, blessed be thou. He reads Abigail as God's messenger, not merely a clever woman, and names what she has done in her own words — kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand (v. 33, echoing her v. 26). A man who can be stopped on the road, and thank the one who stopped him, has the kind of heart God chose in chapter 16; the oath of verse 22 had shown the other kind.

Verse 34 is honest about how close it was: except thou hadst hasted... surely there had not been left unto Nabal by the morning light a single male. The KJV's blunt phrase in verses 22 and 34 is the Hebrew's own idiom for every male of a household. David had sworn to kill them all for one man's insult — the very blood causeless of verse 31. He does not keep the oath, and Scripture does not fault him for breaking it; a rash vow is better repented than performed (Leviticus 5:4-6).

Cross-references 1 Samuel 25:26 · Leviticus 5:4-6 · Proverbs 27:9 · James 1:19-20
38 And it came to pass about ten days after, that the LORD smote Nabal, that he died.

Nabal feasts like the feast of a king while his wife is on the road buying his life, and is very drunken; Abigail wisely waits for the morning. Then she tells him — what exactly, the text does not say — and his heart died within him, and he became as a stone (v. 37). Many read this as a stroke or seizure; the narrator records only the effect. Ten days later the LORD smote Nabal, that he died. What David would not do with his hand, the LORD did without one — the first of the three ways David will name at Hachilah (26:10).

The reader should be careful here. The text does not say every churl will be struck down, nor that sudden death is always judgment; Scripture elsewhere warns against reading providences that way (Luke 13:1-5; John 9:3). What it says is that in this case the LORD returned the wickedness of Nabal upon his own head (v. 39), and that David, who had been kept from avenging himself, saw it as the LORD pleading his cause. The chapter is about whose hand does the judging, not about how to read every funeral.

44 But Saul had given Michal his daughter, David’s wife, to Phalti the son of Laish, which was of Gallim.

Verse 43 adds Ahinoam of Jezreel — a town in the Judaean hills (Joshua 15:56), not the northern valley — and then the narrator closes a wound opened in 19:17: Saul had given Michal... David's wife, to Phalti. The king has dissolved his son-in-law's marriage as if David were dead or outlawed, and married his daughter to a man of Gallim. Scripture reports it without comment, but the sentence sits at the end of a chapter about a wife who kept faith, and the contrast is not accidental.

David's marriages here are the beginning of a pattern the Law warned against in a king — neither shall he multiply wives (Deuteronomy 17:17) — and that 2 Samuel will show bearing bitter fruit. The study does not pretend otherwise. Michal will be demanded back (2 Samuel 3:13-16), with Phalti following her weeping; Abigail will bear Chileab (2 Samuel 3:3). The man kept from blood-guilt in this chapter is not kept from every fault, and the narrator lets us see both on the same page.

Cross-references 1 Samuel 19:17 · Deuteronomy 17:17 · 2 Samuel 3:13-16 · 2 Samuel 3:3
Key doctrines
Vengeance Withheld — the LORD Kept Me Back
1 Samuel 25:26 · 1 Samuel 25:33 · Romans 12:19
Wisdom That Turns Away Wrath
1 Samuel 25:24-31 · Proverbs 15:1 · Proverbs 31:26
Bound in the Bundle of Life
1 Samuel 25:29 · Psalm 121:7-8 · Colossians 3:3
The Fool and His Goods
1 Samuel 25:10-11 · Luke 12:19-21 · Psalm 14:1
Application

You will meet a Nabal — someone who takes what you gave and answers Who is David? — and you will feel the sword at your side. Notice that David, who had just spared Saul, was two hours from slaughtering a household over an insult; your past restraint does not guarantee your next hour. So pray for an Abigail, and when she comes down the hill with bread and sense, do what David did: stop, listen, and bless the one who stopped you. If you are the Abigail in someone's road, take her method — take the blame you can, tell the truth about the fool, and appeal to the person they will be when the anger is spent. Then leave Nabal to God. He may be smitten; he may not; either way the LORD hath pleaded the cause, and your hands are clean.

Christ in this chapter

A woman who comes down the hill to meet an angry king, takes the iniquity on herself — upon me, my lord, upon me let this iniquity be — and turns away wrath with a gift, has long been read by the church as a shadow of intercession, and some have seen in her words a faint outline of the One who bore iniquity not His own. Bound in the bundle of life with the LORD thy God has been heard as Colossians 3:3 in Old Testament dress: the believer's life kept where no Saul can reach it. And David restrained from blood on the road to Carmel points, in the church's reading, toward the King who did not avenge Himself at all, but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously — and toward the bride, once another man's and now His own.

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