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Pauline Epistles · Ephesians

Ephesians 5 — A Sweetsmelling Savour — and a Great Mystery

Summary

Paul continues the worthy walk: walk in love as Christ also loved us. Walk as children of light, exposing the works of darkness. Walk circumspectly as wise, redeeming the time, filled with the Spirit, singing and giving thanks. The chapter's second half applies the gospel to marriage: wives submit to husbands as to the Lord; husbands love wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. The whole picture, Paul says, points beyond marriage itself to a great mystery — Christ and the church.

Key verse

“And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.”

— Ephesians 5:2

Outline
  1. v.1-7 Walk in love as Christ loved — not as the unclean walk
  2. v.8-14 Walk as children of light
  3. v.15-21 Walk circumspectly — filled with the Spirit
  4. v.22-24 Wives: submit as unto the Lord
  5. v.25-33 Husbands: love as Christ loved the church
Verse-by-verse
1 Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children.

Followers — Greek mimētai, imitators. Our word mimic. Children mimic what they see in their parents; so we are to imitate God.

A child's imitation is not flawless but devoted. So with the believer.

Cross-references Matthew 5:48 · 1 Peter 1:15-16 · Luke 6:36
2 And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.

The pattern of Christian love is the pattern of Christ's love — self-giving, sacrificial, costly. Walk in love in this register is not a feeling but a posture of giving.

Sweetsmelling savour — Old Testament sacrificial language (Lev 1:9). The cross was a pleasing aroma to the Father not because it pleased Him to crush the Son but because the Son's obedience and love were perfectly displayed.

Cross-references John 15:13 · Romans 5:8 · Hebrews 10:10-14
3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints.

A high bar: not even once named. The verse calls for a culture among believers where these sins do not occupy normal conversation.

Covetousness sits with the sexual sins — Paul links them as forms of greed. To covet is to crave what is not one's own.

8 For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light.

Notice the wording. We were not merely in darkness — we were darkness. And now we are not merely in light — we are light, in the Lord. Identity precedes ethics.

Cross-references 1 John 1:5-7 · Matthew 5:14-16 · John 8:12
11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.

Two duties: refuse participation, and where appropriate, expose. Light is not passive; it pushes back the dark.

Reprove — Greek elegchō, expose, convict, bring to light.

Cross-references 1 Thessalonians 5:22 · Romans 13:12 · John 3:20
14 Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.

Likely an early Christian hymn or baptismal liturgy that Paul quotes. The call goes to the spiritually asleep and dead — Christ shall give thee light.

Cross-references Romans 13:11 · Isaiah 60:1 · 1 Thessalonians 5:6-8
16 Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.

Redeeming the time — Greek exagorazomenoi ton kairon, buying back the opportunity. The wise believer purchases time from the marketplace of life and converts it to eternal use.

Days are evil — the verse is realistic about the surrounding culture. The wisdom is responsive to that fact, not naïve about it.

Cross-references Colossians 4:5 · Psalm 90:12 · 1 Peter 1:17
18 And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit.

A deliberate contrast. Both involve being under an influence not yourself. The believer's influence is the indwelling Spirit, who fills not for stupor but for clarity and song.

Be filled — Greek present passive imperative, keep on being filled. The filling is repeated, not once-for-all.

21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

A hinge verse. The Spirit-filled life expresses itself in mutual submission. The next paragraphs apply this to marriage, parents/children, masters/servants — but the principle is general first.

Cross-references Philippians 2:3-4 · 1 Peter 5:5 · Romans 12:10
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

Submit yourselves — voluntary, intelligent ordering of oneself. Not crushed, not infantilized.

As unto the Lord — the standard is the wife's posture toward Christ. The verse dignifies the act by lifting its motive to Him.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.

The standard for husband-love is the standard of the cross. A man who would obey verse 22's claim on his wife must first wrestle with verse 25's claim on him.

No room here for husbandly tyranny. The verse closes the door on it.

Cross-references John 13:34 · Colossians 3:19 · 1 Peter 3:7
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word.

Christ's aim for His bride is her holiness. Washing of water by the word — the Spirit using Scripture to cleanse and sanctify.

A husband's leadership in his home includes drawing his wife toward Christ through the Word, not merely managing logistics.

Cross-references John 17:17 · John 15:3 · Titus 3:5
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

Paul quotes Genesis 2:24. Marriage was instituted at creation; its pattern has not changed. Three movements: leave, cleave, one flesh.

Cross-references Genesis 2:24 · Matthew 19:5-6 · 1 Corinthians 6:16
32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

The startling pivot. Marriage is not just an institution; it is an icon. The pattern of one husband, one bride, leaving, cleaving, one flesh — was always pointing past itself to Christ and the church.

A high view of marriage rests here: it is not first social arrangement but eschatological signpost.

Cross-references Revelation 19:7-9 · 2 Corinthians 11:2 · Isaiah 54:5
Key doctrines
Sacrificial Love as the Christian's Walk
Ephesians 5:2 · John 15:13 · Romans 5:8
Identity-Driven Ethics — Light, not Just In It
Ephesians 5:8 · 1 John 1:5-7 · Matthew 5:14
Spirit-Filling as Continuous
Ephesians 5:18 · Acts 4:31 · Galatians 5:25
Mutual Submission Among Believers
Ephesians 5:21 · Philippians 2:3-4 · 1 Peter 5:5
Christ and Church as the Marriage Pattern
Ephesians 5:25-33 · Revelation 19:7 · 2 Corinthians 11:2
Application

For married readers, do not read the verses for your spouse; read them for yourself. Husbands: verse 25 is your standard, not verse 22. Wives: verse 22 is your call, not verse 25. For single readers, verses 1-21 are not less yours; the walk in love and light is the universal vocation of every Christian. Then sit with verse 32 in any state of life — your truest marriage is His, and you are the bride He gave Himself for.

Christ in this chapter

The whole chapter is anchored at verse 2 — the cross as the pattern of Christian love. By the end, marriage itself is revealed as a parable of Him and His church. Husbands' love is to image His sacrifice. Wives' submission is to image the church's reception of His leadership. The institution exists to teach the gospel as much as to populate the earth.